Medal of Honor Veteran ordered to stop flying flag by homeowner association

This is a photo of Van Barfoot in 1944 when he was awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor.

This is a photo of Van Barfoot in 1944 when he was awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor.

Col. Van T. Barfoot, a local Medal of Honor recipient, is under the gun from his Henrico County community’s homeowner association.

In a five-paragraph letter to Barfoot that he received yesterday, Barfoot is being ordered to remove a flagpole from his yard. The decorated veteran of three wars, now 90 years old, raises the American flag every morning on the pole, then lowers and folds the flag at dusk each day in a three-corner military fashion.

In a priority mail letter, the Coates & Davenport law firm in Richmond is ordering Barfoot to remove the pole by 5 p.m. Friday or face “legal action being brought to enforce the Covenants and Restrictions against you.” The letter states that Barfoot will be subject to paying all legal fees and costs in any successful legal proceeding pursued by the homeowner association’s board.

Barfoot’s daughter said this evening that news reports about the association order have prompted an outpouring of sympathy and offers of help from people following her father’s ordeal.

Tonight, the Sussex Square Homeowners Association issued a statement reiterating its position that Barfoot directly violated the association board’s denial of his request to erect a flagpole.

“This is not about the American flag. This about a flagpole,” the statement reads.

Barfoot lives in the Sussex Square community in far western Henrico; its board of directors rejected a plea from Barfoot in July to approve the pole, disallowing the fixture on aesthetic grounds.

There is no provision in the community’s rules expressly forbidding flagpoles, Barfoot’s daughter said. But she said the board ruled against her father’s fixture and ordered it removed in July, deciding that free-standing flag poles are not aesthetically appropriate. Short flag stands attached to porches dot the community.

“Dad sort of feels like this is the end,” said Margaret Nicholls, Barfoot’s daughter, who lives a few doors away. But she said this morning that she and her husband are attempting to generate support for her father’s cause, a flag-raising rite that he has undertaken for most of his life.

Barfoot received the Medal of Honor on the battlefield during World War II in Italy and fought as well in the Korean and Vietnam wars. A portion of a highway in rural Mississippi, his native state, was named in his honor this fall. A building at McGuire Veterans Hospital in Richmond also carries his name.

Barfoot began regularly flying the flag on Veteran’s Day this year despite the Sussex Square board’s decision.

He said in November that not flying the flag would be a sacrilege to him.

“There’s never been a day in my life or a place I’ve lived in my life that you couldn’t fly the American flag,” he said.

Richmond Times-Dispatch.

Medal of Honor recipient Col. Van T. Barfoot is being ordered to remove a flagpole from his yard in western Henrico County.  Photo by Joe Mahoney- Times-Dispatch

Medal of Honor recipient Col. Van T. Barfoot is being ordered to remove a flagpole from his yard in western Henrico County. Photo by Joe Mahoney- Times-Dispatch

————— extends our appreciation to the American Legion.  The Legion  has offered to help Colonel Barfoot’s with his legal expenses to fight these actions by the association.

Fighting for the flag is not new to The American Legion, the nation’s leading authority on flag etiquette. Since 1989, The Legion has been fighting for a constitutional amendment that would grant Congress the authority to protect Old Glory from desecration.

Many of us live in residential developments that are governed by an Association.  Debbie Gregory, CEO of, currently serves as President of her community HOA.  “I wonder what happened to being reasonable and exercising common sense?  An HOA should serve the best interests of the community.   I cannot believe that Colonel Barfoot, a true hero flying America’s flag is inconsistent with the best interests of this community. On the contrary, the HOA Board has created negative publicity and ridicule as well as discouraging potential buyers who might consider living in this community. If I lived in Colonel Barfoot’s community, I’d consider electing a new Homeowner Board of Directors.  We should honor our heroes, not harass them.”

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